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Overview


Learning relationship's secrets

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Overview


Learning relationship's secrets

The only vitally important purpose in life is the giving and receiving of love.

Michael Murphy

 

For those of us in search of what it really means to be fulfilled, to feel seen and heard, to be connected, to be at ease and to feel joy - then relationships - all relationships - have the potential to unlock these things in us.

How is it then that relationships so often leave us feeling misunderstood, frustrated, sad and defeated?

Would you like to know?

Would you like to go beyond couples counseling to the deeper things that move you, to reach the parts that couples counseling can't reach and in so doing make the relationship you long for possible?

Would you like to find out how you can do life differently so that this vital thing "the giving and receiving of love" becomes your life's purpose and you succeed?

Taking relationship counselling, couples counselling and marriage counselling to greater depths and to faster solutions. We create an environment where you can dig deep and find out what it is about yourself that is blocking your true potential to experience your relationships in a more fulfilling way. In the workshops, we have seen the model we have developed bring substantial, and sometimes surprising changes to people's lives and to their relationships

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What We Do


What we do

What We Do


What we do

We take you on a journey through the ups and downs, and the hidden pitfalls of relating to another.

But we all need to learn and practise these new skills and we need to do this again and again until we get good at it. Each of our workshops tell the whole story. Firstly we will equip you with the skills and knowledge you need to be more present, conscious and alive in your relationship to self and others. Then we will show you all the ways we screw it up and how we need never do it again.

Our workshops will

  • Help you to understand how your unconscious operates
  • Help you to see how you acquired unconscious beliefs about yourself and what they are
  • Show you how unconscious beliefs can dominate your life and your relationships
  • Guide you to become 'present' and demonstrate that it is a simple (if challenging) necessity.
  • Assist you in understanding and experiencing how shifting states of emotions and thinking define your view of yourself and of your world
  • Demonstrate how others can 'trigger' powerful emotional responses in you, show you where they originate from and help you to learn how to survive, recover and grow from them
  • Help you to experience how intimacy thrives in the here and now


"Doing the Relationship workshop gave my partner and myself genuine insights into our individual tendencies and 'triggers', which in turn provided us with invaluable tools for deeper connection, intimacy and a sense of lasting joy. We highly recommend this workshop to both individuals and couples” - Daniel and Jenny

'Invaluable. By the end of this workshop I had connected some particularly important dots that had eluded me for some time, shedding new light on my patterns in relationships with others as well as myself. It was lovely to feel such a strong sense of safety and holding within the group, which supported me to move at my pace. I had a lot of fun through the day - I'm so grateful to have discovered this workshop!`- Piers

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How it works


How it works

How it works


How it works

You will be sharing a room with others who, like you, are wanting to understand what's going on and are committed to doing it differently.

What we do together is to uncover what is really going on under the surface, bring it into the open and watch it (and you) change. And we do this by clear explanations of the mechanics at work, practical examples of how we function and dis-function, lots of exercises for you to experience everything yourself and simple guidance in how to effect change.

Each day you attend a workshop you will begin to understand just how your unconscious operates, how you acquired negative unconscious beliefs about yourself and what they are (and that they are, in fact, untrue) and the intricate ways in which they sabotaged your relationships. And you will discover how they have, sight unseen, dominated your life. Then you will learn how to take your life back.

You will learn

How to bring an openness and calmness into the way you relate to others, a clarity and power, a resilience and a kind of charisma that brings out the best in you and in whoever you connect to. It's not easy and it's not a quick fix but, at last, it's something that really works.

The work we do with you is a distillation of the insights and techniques from many therapies and teachers. Where they hit upon the truths about us and our relationships we have gathered them together and designed this process - a process that will transform your life.

We utilise the techniques of Gestalt, Dialogic and Hakomi therapies, Transactional Analysis, Non-Violent Communication, Richard Moss (especially) and others too numerous to mention.

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Contact


Get in touch

Contact


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